I have delivered a twin baby boy on 2007, Nov. Now, my babies are about 3 months and they are growing everyday. I realised that they are changing everyday and can't wait to see them everyday. One day, a friend share a thought with that she will be getting married this year but she refuse to have any baby. I asked her what is the reason, she told me that it is so troublesome and  burden that need to take care of them, teach them and have to worried about them everyday.

For the old century, people to have children with the purpose is to take care of the parents when the parents are old. But, I realised that lots of youngster neither hardly go back home to visit their parents or pay the pocket money to the parents as well.

I can understand of being a parents that night wake-up call for the first months and the effort & time sacrifice for the baby.

In the nutshell, have you ever thought what is the reason to have baby if you cannot afford take care of them in term of time and financial stability. If not, it is time to think abou it.